Love problems.

[Onyx]

I've got some problems with well.. girls. You see.. I'm going out with someone on a chatroom, I love her and she loves me back.. But, there's someone else I love too.. and she's here in real life.. But she's a friend, and for some reason doesn't love me back..

I can't think of what to do. Right now I feel like I want to die.. I cheated on my girl, because I almost kissed my friend. I don't want her to feel unloved, but I feel bad that she does not know.. Maybe I'll just call her when I'm not supposed to, and then she'll end the relationship between me and her.. I'm not sure if that'd be a good idea though. I wish I could think of what to do. My mind is unclear.

Can I please have words of advice?
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[Rayadragon]

I need to preface this with the disclaimer that I had a long distance relationship go very badly. I also tried internet/long distance dating a good chat board friend, and that went better, not well though.

In my experience it's very hard to keep even a normal long-distance relationship going. The problems seem to multiply when there's no way to travel to actually see or even meet the object of your affection.

Don't feel bad about "almost" kissing your friend. As I said above, it's incredibly hard to keep a relationship going when there's no way of going forward with it. It's normal to be attracted to someone you can see and touch.

Calling her (the one on the internet I assume) "when you're not suppost to" is generally a bad idea. I think you should tell her though, and be honest with her. From there you two will have to figure out on your own what to do about this.
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[Hyraxylos]

I too have read several places that online relationships are doomed to failure, period. The confident certainty is questionable of course; I've yet to hear of a statistic that's rated a perfect 100%... My take on online relationships returns a result of "Does Not Compute". I mean, for something to be a "relationship" you’d have to be able to DO things with someone in person, so then you'd have to meet in real life, but then if you meet in real life it's no longer "online" is it!
I'm starting to confuse myself, but at least I got my point in. If there's someone I really care about online then I'll just get closer and closer to them emotionally. Even "love" could result from that. I just wouldn't refer to such a person as a "girlfriend" though, nor would I classify it as a "relationship". So the problem I'm referring to isn't really pertaining to social obstacles; it's more of merely a contradiction in terms. So from the way I look at it, you have only one girlfriend. I mean... you wouldn't take your computer out to dinner would you?
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